Splitting with your spouse can be painful. But what could be worse? Alimony, child support, mortgage splitting, selling your home, and paying for the entire divorce process. If youget a divorce, who gets the house? What if you want to sell it? How can you buy out your soon-to-be-ex-partner without enough to pay the mortgage? Who lives in the house? Should one person get an apartment? Who pays the mortgage?

Divorces are one of life's many tragedies that keep some people from realizing their best. You get married to this wonderful human being and in a few years, you can't stand that son-of-a-mortgage.

In Gold Digger, Mr. West says, "we want pre-nupt, we want pre-nupt - yeah."  You know people don't think about finances when they get married. Look at the money they waste on the wedding. Any one for arranged marriages?

What should you do if you have a mortgage and a spouse that wants out?