
Ridiculous! That’s the only way I can describe the latest craze among pre-teen girls, that’s apparently being fueled by their mothers. Girls between the ages of 10 and 12 and sometimes even younger are getting bikini waxes.
What’s wrong with these mothers??? Why would anyone woman who has ever had anything waxed (eyebrow, leg, bikini, etc.) want her daughter to endure that pain?
TODAYshow.com surveyed several salon owners around the country who say the number of kids 12 and under coming in for waxing services has increased dramatically over the past three years.
An aesthetician in Philadelphia says the mothers who bring their daughters in for waxing come in two varieties: those who are concerned because their children are being teased about their body hair, and those she calls “perfectionists.”
But some experts say using hair removal to boost self-esteem is not a good idea.
“Girls are learning the worst possible lessons about body image and body hair,” said Dr. Diane Levin, professor of education at Wheelock College in Boston and co-author of the book “So Sexy So Soon.” Ultimately Levin says, the trend of tweens waxing is indicative of bigger issues, including the sexualizing of young girls.
“Girls shouldn’t be taught so early to focus on how they look and that things like money, makeup and looking good buy happiness, instead of the skills that they possess,” Levin said.
So is this a case of mothers trying to protect their daughters or are they trying to live vicariously through their children? In either case, it's sad!!! It reminds me of something my mother told me, “children should be allowed to be children, they grow up too fast these days and miss out being a kid and before you know it, they’re adults.”