I went on for two minutes Thursday night about the tragic circumstances surrounding the stabbing death of 31 year-old Adelina Weber, but had the constraints of television news allowed, my piece could have stretched much longer.
There's just so much to say.
My story centered on her family's lawsuit against the Waukegan Police Department, which alleges law enforcement showed a "conscious disregard for her safety" in the weeks after Adelina obtained an order of protection against her husband of six years, 58 year-old Clarence Weber.
Let's go over the facts-
He writes a threat on the wall, they say police brushed it off as the ravings of a drunk.
Their home burns down, and Clarence-a convicted arsonist- remained free.
She files for a divorce, and he asked her to meet him to talk.
She did. And she died.
"Had the Waukegan Police Department done what they were legally bound to do on May 5th (the day they found Clarence's threat), it's our contention that the murder never would have occured," says John Karnezis, who represents Adelina's family.
Perhaps not.
But Adelina had a job to do too, says Linda Healy, the executive director of Mutual Ground, Inc., a domestic violence shelter in Aurora.
"When he said let's meet, the answer should have been no," Healy contends. "Let the lawyers handle the divorce- just don't get into it. And knowing his record.....my God, she was just a sitting duck."
A sitting duck in a dangerous time, Healy adds. She says the period immediately following an at-risk woman's petition for a divorce is the time when "she is in the most danger."
Healy and I questioned the reasons behind Adelina's decision to meet with this man.
Healy said her cultural backgound could have played a role- Adelina is Hispanic, and Healy believed her to be most likely trained to submit to whatever her husband desires.
I noted the age difference- 27 years, by my count, which could have cast Clarence in a role more suited to father than husband.
Whatever the reason, Adelina felt obliged to meet him on Saturday, the day police say he stabbed her to death.
Whether there was an order of protection or not, Adelina didn't say no, and now her family has to speak for her.
As for police, their education on domestic violence has a long way to go should the allegations in the lawsuit prove true.
But Healy says in her 22 years in the field, cops have certainly come a long way. When police used to respond to domestic violence calls, she says they would take the man involved to the local bar to cool off- like adding kerosene to the fire.
What women may learn from this could be that the best way to extinguish rage.. is to remain far from it.
Adelina can no longer speak, but her tale cries... order of protection or not, women have to protect themselves.
What do you think? How could this have been prevented?